Good discussion is essential on dates, especially when you’re just getting to know someone. But that doesn’t signify any old subject is on the table. In fact, some of us guys are easily put off when the women we’re dating ask us these things.
Does This Outfit Make Me Look…?
You know girls, this is one question every man dreads! Understand it this way – if we are going out with you then obviously we like the way you look! Your body image issues give us nightmares and bringing up this conversation on the first date will leave our palms sweaty and you wouldn’t like that when we hold your hand later! The thing is we will rarely say the correct thing in this situation and even if we do, you’ll accuse us of trying to please you with flattery come on, There is no winning this so just don’t bring it up, Please!
Why Are You Still Single?
Such a loaded question on a first date should be banned and if any woman brings this up, Just fine her like some $30,000! Lady, this is borderline insulting! Why do you think we are single our previous relationships didn’t work out for one reason or another so do you want us to bring up our shortcomings? Well, we don’t want to either. We have no intention of reliving those bad memories, don’t bring it up. And it‘ll be better if you try to know us a little so you get the answer automatically or maybe realize that it doesn’t matter!
What Are We?
Ladies, there is a time and place to have the “relationship” talk but a first date is definitely not it! This question should come after a couple of months but if you are asking this too soon then mark our words this isn’t going in the direction you want it to go! For starters, men don’t want to be put in the spot and this question points at them like a dart! Like if you really want to have this conversation why can’t you come up with something like, “I feel it is time to talk about…” so that it doesn’t burden us? Keep this conversation bottled up until we have spent enough time together to be led somewhere!
Do You Think She’s Pretty?
Talk about a lose-lose situation and this is where you’ll end! Never, we repeat, never ask the question to the guy you are out on a date with. Let’s face it if he says no, you aren’t believing him. And just imagine if he has the courage to say yes, my God, you are going to end up fighting with him because he was checking out another girl while on a date with you! Most women are somewhat insecure about themselves and when a beautiful woman walks into the room, she wants to make sure her man is not eyeing the “Smart” women. But will this question help? No, so please don’t ask!
Where Do You See Yourself In Five Years?
That is a great question when you want to know someone but we cannot stress enough the fact that a date is not the same as an interview and the questions asked in these settings cannot be interchanged! Women who ask such a question on the first date comes out to be making future plans to soon and trust us, it is scary! The next time you are out on the first date, don’t ask him his 5 years plans unless you want him to excuse himself to the loo and never return!
Am I Your Type?
What on earth does this question even mean? What can be our type, are we here to meet you as a person or as a representative of a particular “type” of girls? Like if we say that you are our type, it would mean that we don’t like you as an individual but you have characteristics of our ex-girlfriend and so you have a chance! That is definitely not the criteria we would select a partner on! And if we say you are not our type, the date is officially over! In short, there is no right answer to this painful question so why don’t you keep it away from us, Far away?
Are You Listening To Me?
What is the point of asking a guy if he is listening to you or not when you can clearly see that he isn’t? You are gorgeous in your own right and your voice is as sweet as honey but sweetie, if there is a football game going on, you are losing him! Guys are masters of selective hearing, they will choose to hear what suits them so when you were telling him how you bought this dress especially for the date and there is a faint sound of football commentary, and you know where his ears are! If he is not listening to you, it doesn’t mean that he is not interested in you. So don’t make a big deal of it!
Who Are You Texting?
We cannot deny that texting in the middle of a date is wrong on all parameters but that does not give you the license to pry into our life, for heaven’s sake- This is the first date! Any guy would hate it if you ask him who he’s texting because it simply means that you are suspicious and don’t trust him. No matter if you haven’t dated anyone before. You know what this is a bad start! Trust the guy, he would apologize for using his phone on a date and would even explain the reason. A guy who isn’t explaining such a thing is sketchy so you know “where this is going”!
Do You Think Your Family/Friends Will Like Me?
We do not want to hear this question unless we have plans of introducing you to our friends and family! It just feels you are trying to push this relationship forwarded at uncomfortably high speed! Anyway, Even if it is the right time to introduce you to our loved ones, what makes you think we have an answer to this question? No guy, we repeat, no guy in their right mind would tell you, “Just a heads up- my family and friends are going to hate you”!
What Are You Thinking?
Any guy who had been asked this question will tell you how much he hated it! Most guys don’t know how to answer it and that sucks! Frankly, our minds are not brimming with eloquent thoughts that we are excited to pour out in front of you. Do you really want to hear that we’ve been thinking about a porn star while sipping coffee with you? And how impressed would you be if we told you that we were thinking about the next football game while you were rambling about your sister’s boyfriend’s uncle? We won’t dazzle you with some profound thoughts so spare us this horror!
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